Friday, August 28, 2009

A Good Solo

Started from kindergarten, your mom will hold your hands, brg you to school, hug you and kiss you goodbye. When you came home, your mom bath you, feed you and check your homework, do some arts work with you. Your dad sings you to bed, your mom tell you bedtime princess story:) Nice...

You grow...few years later, your teacher hold your hands, teach you to read, write and speak. They interprete everything for you, and try to deliver you some simple question and provide the answer as well.

Soon, your secondary school, your teacher try to leave you alone by delivering some info which is you think not so relevant. But sometimes, somehow, the teacher still interprete something useful to you and provides you answer and question....YAY...with the helping hand of your friends, you discuss, mix around, learn together, you grow.

Now, is time for university. Your lecturer only lecture in the class but not teaching, your tutor cannot speak and teach well, your job is now learn to find your question and find your answer as well with no proper answer provided. OK, now actually we should find some friends. But as i am an international student, i can't have alot of good friend here. May be just some hi and bye friend. Well, sometimes due to the bell curving system, alot of students here are quite selfish too...They won't care about you, even answer cannot be shared!

"Helpless" creeping in your life....you are now helpless and hopeless...firstly, the lecturer is just lecture in the hall and not even know who are you, secondly, the tutor is a graduate student and they can't speak proper english(COOL) and no experience in teaching...simply cannot teach!thirdly, you hardly get some nice friend:) fourthly, you can't manage to do the stuff alone.

So, learn to be SOLO. Cover urself with your positive personally outside. Although your confidence become lesser and lesser every moment when you just hardly survive in this cruel place, you must stand still, head still, back still! Smile, act as a professional one to scare the others. learn to be SOLO!!! Independent is nothing. U must kno your stuff all on alone, understand it alone, learn the ans alone. Even dun hav enough time, you must do it all alone....


SOLO SOLO SOLO SOLO SOLO SOLO

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